Choosing bridesmaid dresses can turn into one of the trickiest parts of wedding planning. Everyone has an opinion, every dress site has a thousand options, and somewhere in the middle of it all, you may have found yourself asking: should bridesmaids match or not? With so many options out there, it’s no wonder decision fatigue sets in.
The good news is there’s no single right answer. Once you see what real wedding parties have done, it becomes a lot easier to spot the option that suits your own wedding aesthetic. Here’s a rundown of the main approaches, so you can pick what works best for you.
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Same dress, same colour
The classic choice. All your bridesmaids wear the same dress in the same colour, for a look that’s cohesive, elegant and easy to plan around.
Top tip: choose a style that’s flattering across all body types, so every bridesmaid feels comfortable and confident on the day.
Same style, different colours
Want to bring your wedding colour palette to life? Choose one dress style and let each bridesmaid wear it in a different shade from your palette. It keeps things uniform in shape while adding a bit of visual variety.
Different dresses, same colour palette
If you love a monotone look, this one’s for you. Let your bridesmaids choose completely different dress styles, all within the same colour family. Think a range of blush pink dresses, each in a different cut, but still clearly belonging together.
Different dresses, same colour
Similar idea, slightly different execution. Here, dresses are in the exact same colour but with different styles, perhaps even the same silhouette with a unique top half for each bridesmaid. It’s a nice middle ground between matching and individuality.
Similar style, clear colour palette
For something a little more unique, set a clear colour palette and a general style direction (say, floaty midi dresses), then let your bridesmaids pick whatever dress fits within it. It gives everyone room to choose what suits them, while still looking pulled together as a group.
Completely different dresses, total mix and match
The most relaxed option of all: let your bridesmaids buy whatever dress they like, in whatever style or colour suits them. It works best with a little light guidance, such as agreeing on long, formal dresses versus short, casual ones, so the overall look still feels intentional rather than random.
Top tips for choosing bridesmaid dresses
- Decide early whether you want a matching, coordinated or mix and match look.
- Choose styles that flatter a range of body types if going matching.
- Give some guidance (length, formality, fabric) even with a mix and match approach.
- Look at real wedding party photos for inspiration before you shop.
- Remember, there’s no wrong answer. Choose whatever works best for you.
However you choose to dress your bridesmaids, the goal is the same: a look that feels true to your wedding and comfortable for everyone wearing it. Browse our bridesmaid dress suppliers to start finding the perfect fit for your crew.
