For touching, romantic and sweet non-religious wedding readings, look no further! Here’s our selection of some of the best passages and poems about love and marriage. These can be read by the bride, the groom, or specially chosen members of the wedding party.Excerpt from The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery WilliamsWhat is REAL?’ asked the Rabbit one day, when they were lying side by side near the nursery fender, before Nana came to tidy the room. ‘Does it mean having things that buzz inside you and a stick-out handle?’‘Real isn’t how you are made,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘It’s a thing that happens to you. When someone loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.’‘Does it hurt? Asked the Rabbit. ‘Sometimes,’ said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. ‘When you are Real you don’t mind being hurt.’ ‘Does it happen all at once, like being wound up,’ he asked, ‘or bit by bit?’‘It doesn’t happen all at once,’ said the Skin Horse. ‘You become. It takes a long time. That’s why it doesn’t happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in your joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly, except to people who don’t understand.’‘I suppose you are real?’ said the Rabbit. And then he wished he had not said it, for he thought the Skin Horse only smiled. ‘Someone made me Real,’ he said. ‘That was a great many years ago; but once you are Real you can’t become unreal again. It lasts for always.’A Red Red Rose by Robert BurnsO my Luve’s like a red, red roseThat’s newly sprung in June;O my Luve’s like the melodieThat’s sweetly played in tune.As fair art thou, my bonnie lass,So deep in luve am I;And I will luve thee still, my dear,Till a’ the seas gang dry:Till a’ the seas gang dry, my dear,And the rocks melt wi’ the sun;I will luve thee still, my dear,While the sands o’ life shall run.Union by Robert FulghumYou have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks — all those sentences that began with “When we’re married” and continued with “I will and you will and we will” — those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” — and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding. The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, “You know all those things we’ve promised and hoped and dreamed — well I meant it all, every word.” Look at one another and remember this moment in time. Before this moment you have been many things to one another — acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, and even teacher, for you have learned much from one another in these last few years. Now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between you two. For after these vows, you shall say to the world, “this is my husband,” “this is my wife.” The Art of Marriage by Wilferd PetersonHappiness in marriage is not something that just happens.A good marriage must be created.In the art of marriage the little things are the big things…It is never being too old to hold hands.It is remembering to say “I love you” at least once a day.It is never going to sleep angry.It is at no time taking the other for granted;the courtship should not end with the honeymoon,it should continue through all the years.It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.It is standing together facing the world.It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.It is doing things for each other, not in the attitudeof duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy.It is speaking words of appreciationand demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.It is not looking for perfection in each other.It is cultivating flexibility, patience,understanding and a sense of humour.It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.It is finding room for the things of the spirit.It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.It is discovering what marriage can be, at its best.Excerpt from Gift from the Sea by Anne Morrow LindberghWhen you love someone, you do not love them all the time, in exactly the same way, from moment to moment. It is an impossibility. It is even a lie to pretend to. And yet this is exactly what most of us demand. We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of the tide and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible, in life as in love, is in growth, in fluidity – in freedom, in the sense that the dancers are free, barely touching as they pass, but partners in the same pattern. The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now. Relationships must be like islands, one must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits – islands, surrounded and interrupted by the sea, and continually visited and abandoned by the tides.All I Really Need To Know I Learned In Kindergarten by Robert FulghumMost of what I really needTo know about how to liveAnd what to do and how to beI learned in kindergarten.Wisdom was not at the topOf the graduate school mountain,But there in the sandpile at Sunday school.These are the things I learned:Share everything.Play fair.Don’t hit people.Put things back where you found them.Clean up your own mess.Don’t take things that aren’t yours.Say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody.Wash your hands before you eat.Flush.Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.Live a balanced lifeLearn some and think someAnd draw and paint and sing and danceAnd play and work everyday some.Take a nap every afternoon.When you go out into the world,Watch out for traffic,Hold hands and stick together.Be aware of wonder.Remember the little seed in the styrofoam cup:The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobodyreally knows how or why, but we are all like that.Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and eventhe little seed in the Styrofoam cup – they all die.So do we.And then remember the Dick-and-Jane booksand the first word you learned – the biggestword of all – LOOK.Excerpt from The Princess Bride by William GoldmanDo I love you? My God, if your love were a grain of sand, mine would be a universe of beaches… I have stayed these years in my hovel because of you. I have taught myself languages because of you. I have made my body strong because I thought you might be pleased by a strong body. I have lived my life with only the prayer that some sudden dawn you might glance in my direction. I have not known a moment in years when the sight of you did not send my heart careening against my rib cage. I have not known a night when your visage did not accompany me to sleep. There has not been a morning when you did not flutter behind my waking eyelids…I love you. Okay? Want it louder? I love you. Spell it out, should I? I ell-oh-vee-ee why-oh-you. Want it backward? You love I…I’ve been saying it so long to you, you just wouldn’t listen. Every time you said, ‘Farm Boy, do this’, you thought I was answering, ‘As you wish’, but that’s only because you were hearing wrong. ‘I love you’ was what it was, but you never heard.”To My Dear and Loving Husband by Anne BradstreetIf ever two were one, then surely we.If ever man were loved by wife, then thee;If ever wife was happy in a man,Compare with me ye women if you can.I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold,Or all the riches that the East doth hold.My love is such that rivers cannot quench,Nor ought but love from thee give recompense.Thy love is such I can no way repay;The heavens reward thee manifold, I pray.Then while we live, in love let’s so persever,That when we live no more we may live ever.Excerpt from Anne’s House of Dreams by L M MontgomeryIt was a happy and beautiful bride who came down the old, homespun-carpeted stairs that September noon – the first bride of Green Gables, slender and shining-eyed, in the mist of her maiden veil, with her arms full of roses. Gilbert, waiting for her in the hall below, looked up at her with adoring eyes. She was his at last, this evasive, long-sought Anne, won after years of patient waiting. It was to him she was coming in the sweet surrender of the bride. Was he worthy of her? Could he make her as happy as he hoped? If he failed her – if he could not measure up to her standard of manhood – then, as she held out her hand, their eyes met and all doubt was swept away in a glad certainty. They belonged to each other; and, no matter what life might hold for them, it could never alter that. Their happiness was in each other’s keeping and both were unafraid.On Your Wedding Day by unknown authorToday is a day you will always rememberThe greatest in anyone’s lifeYou’ll start off the day just two people in loveAnd end it as Husband and WifeIt’s a brand new beginning the start of a journeyWith moments to cherish and treasureAnd although there’ll be time when you both disagreeThese will surely be outweighed by pleasureYou’ll have heard many words of advice in the pastWhen the secrets of marriage were spokenBut you know that the answers lie hidden insideWhere the bond of tru love lies unbrokenSo live happy forever as lovers and friendsIt’s the dawn of a new life for youAs you stand there together with love in your eyesFrom the moment you whisper ‘I do’And with luck, all your hopes, and your dreams can be realMay success find its way to your heartsTomorrow can bring you the greatest of joysBut today is the day it all starts.Maybe by AnonymousMaybe, we are supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.Maybe, it is true that we don’t know what we have got until we lose it, but it is also true that we don’t know what we have been missing until it arrives.Maybe, the happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.Maybe, the best kind of love is the kind you can sit on a sofa together and never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.Maybe, you shouldn’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.Maybe, you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.Maybe, love is not about finding the perfect person, it’s about learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.Us Two by A.A. MilneWherever I am, there’s always Pooh,There’s always Pooh and Me.Whatever I do, he wants to do,”Where are you going today?” says Pooh:”Well, that’s very odd ‘cos I was too.Let’s go together,” says Pooh, says he.”Let’s go together,” says Pooh.”What’s twice eleven?” I said to Pooh.(“Twice what?” said Pooh to Me.)”I think it ought to be twenty-two.””Just what I think myself,” said Pooh.”It wasn’t an easy sum to do,But that’s what it is,” said Pooh, said he.”That’s what it is,” said Pooh.”Let’s look for dragons,” I said to Pooh.”Yes, let’s,” said Pooh to Me.We crossed the river and found a few-“Yes, those are dragons all right,” said Pooh.”As soon as I saw their beaks I knew.That’s what they are,” said Pooh, said he.”That’s what they are,” said Pooh.”Let’s frighten the dragons,” I said to Pooh.”That’s right,” said Pooh to Me.”I’m not afraid,” I said to Pooh,And I held his paw and I shouted “Shoo!Silly old dragons!”- and off they flew.”I wasn’t afraid,” said Pooh, said he,”I’m never afraid with you.”So wherever I am, there’s always Pooh,There’s always Pooh and Me.”What would I do?” I said to Pooh,”If it wasn’t for you,” and Pooh said: “True,It isn’t much fun for One, but Two,Can stick together, says Pooh, says he.”That’s how it is,” says Pooh.Excerpt from Les Miserables by Victor Hugo
The future belongs to hearts even more than it does to minds. Love, that is the only thing that can occupy and fill eternity. In the infinite, the inexhaustible is requisite.
Love participates of the soul itself. It is of the same nature. Like it, it is the divine spark; like it, it is incorruptible, indivisible, imperishable. It is a point of fire that exists within us, which is immortal and infinite, which nothing can confine, and which nothing can extinguish. We feel it burning even to the very marrow of our bones, and we see it beaming in the very depths of heaven…What a grand thing it is to be loved! What a far grander thing it is to love! The heart becomes heroic, by dint of passion. It is no longer composed of anything but what is pure; it no longer rests on anything that is not elevated and great. An unworthy thought can no more germinate in it, than a nettle on a glacier. The serene and lofty soul, inaccessible to vulgar passions and emotions, dominating the clouds and the shades of this world, its follies, its lies, its hatreds, its vanities, its miseries, inhabits the blue of heaven, and no longer feels anything but profound and subterranean shocks of destiny, as the crests of mountains feel the shocks of earthquake.If there did not exist some one who loved, the sun would become extinct.I Like You by Sandol StoddardI like you and I know why.I like you because you are a good person to like.I like you because when I tell you something special, you know it’s specialAnd you remember it a long, long time.You say, ‘Remember when you told me something special?’And both of us rememberWhen I think something is importantyou think it’s important tooWe have good ideasWhen I say something funny, you laughI think I’m funny and you think I’m funny tooHah-hah!…And I like you because when I am feeling sadYou don’t always cheer me up right awaySometimes it is better to be sad…I like you because if I am mad at youThen you are mad at me tooIt’s awful when the other person isn’t…I like you because I don’t know why butEverything that happens is nicer with youI can’t remember when I didn’t like youIt must have been lonesome thenI like you because because becauseI forget why I like you but I do.Marriage Joins Two People in the Circle of Its Love, by Edmund O’NeillMarriage is a commitment to life, to the best that two people can find and bring out in each other. It offers opportunities for sharing and growth that no other human relationship can equal; a joining that is promised for a lifetime. Within the circle of its love, marriage encompasses all of life’s most important relationships. A wife and a husband are each other’s best friend, confidant, lover, teacher, listener, and critic. There may come times when one partner is heartbroken or ailing, and the love of the other may resemble the tender caring of a parent for a child. Marriage deepens and enriches every facet of life. Happiness is fuller; memories are fresher; commitment is stronger; even anger is felt more strongly, and passes away more quickly. Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes life is unable to avoid. It encourages and nurtures new life, new experiences, and new ways of expressing love through the seasons of life. When two people pledge to love and care for each other in marriage, they create a spirit unique to themselves, which binds them closer than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, a potential, made in the hearts of two people who love, which takes a lifetime to fulfill.Foxtrot From a Play by W H AudenThe soldier loves his rifle,The scholar loves his books,The farmer loves his horses,The film star loves her looks.There’s love the whole world overWherever you may be;Some lose their rest for gay Mae West,But you’re my cup of tea.Some talk of AlexanderAnd some of Fred Astaire,Some like their heroes hairySome like them debonair,Some prefer a curateAnd some an A.D.C.,Some like a tough to treat’em rough,But you’re my cup of tea.Some are mad on AiredalesAnd some on Pekinese,On tabby cats or parrotsOr guinea pigs or geese.There are patients in asylumsWho think that they’re a tree;I had an ant who loved a plant,But you’re my cup of tea.Some have sagging waistlinesAnd some a bulbous noseAnd some a floating kidneyAnd some have hammer toes,Some have tennis elbowAnd some have housemaid’s knee,And some I know have got B.O.,But you’re my cup of tea.The blackbird loves the earthworm,The adder loves the sun,The polar bear an iceberg,The elephant a bun,The trout enjoys the river,The whale enjoys the sea,And dogs love most an old lamp-post,But you’re my cup of tea.
Main image from Isobelle & Edward’s real wedding by DKPHOTO
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