In a world where smartphones are practically glued to our hands, the idea of an “unplugged wedding” might sound radical… but it’s becoming a meaningful choice for many couples. In this episode, we’re diving into what an unplugged wedding actually is, why you might want one, and how to make it happen without stepping on any toes.
Whether you’re dreaming of a tech-free ceremony, hoping to avoid a sea of screens as you walk down the aisle, or simply want your guests to be fully present, this episode is packed with practical tips, kind wording, and creative ways to set the tone. We’ll also chat about how to manage your own phone on the big day… because yes, even the couple needs a digital plan!
What is an Unplugged Wedding?
The goal of an unplugged wedding is for everybody to enjoy being in the moment. We live in a screen-obsessed world and it can take enforced rules to actually switch off and pay attention to what’s really important. An unplugged wedding can be anything from asking guests not to take or post photos during your ceremony (and reception too, if you wish) to requesting that guests don’t pull out their phones or tech devices at all throughout the festivities. The rules are up to you! You get to decide how much or little technology you want to include in your wedding.
Some couples choose to keep just the ceremony unplugged, some allow guests to take photos but request that nothing is shared on social media, while others prefer banning all tech for the day.
The pros of going Unplugged:
- Everyone gets to be present in the moment – fewer distractions.
- No one blocking the aisle with an iPad trying to get “the shot.”
- Less pressure and awkwardness walking toward a sea of phones.
- Professional photos won’t be ruined by bright screens or outstretched arms.
- You control your online presence – no surprise posts or early photo leaks.
- No embarrassing ringtone moments!
How to enforce a no-tech rule:
On your invitation and wedding website
- Brief, kind wording goes a long way.
- Sample script: “We would love for you to be fully present with us during our ceremony, so we kindly ask that all phones and cameras be turned off.”
Creative Signage at the Ceremony
- Keep it stylish, gentle, and in line with your wedding vibe.
- Examples: chalkboard signs, framed messages, wooden boards, etc.
Ask for Help from Key People
- Celebrant, solemniser, ushers, or even a family member can make a short announcement before the ceremony begins.
- Example: “The couple kindly ask that you put your devices away so we can all enjoy this special moment together.”
Reinforce with Respect
- Tone matters: you’re inviting people to join in an experience, not banning them from doing something fun.
What should you do with your own phone?
Designate a “Phone-Free Zone” for yourselves during the ceremony and most of the day.
Hand off your phones to a trusted person (best man, maid of honour, sibling).
If you’re nervous about emergencies:
- Keep phones nearby but turned off or on airplane mode.
- Set a scheduled time to check in – perhaps after speeches or during the reception break.
Consider a “Photo Hour” if you want to be tech-free but still take some selfies or videos on your own terms.
