Now, I know what you’re thinking: “This is my dream wedding day, I can’t possibly get other people involved.” Well, the truth is… with hundreds of wedding planning tasks to be done and decisions to be made, you’ll soon realise that delegation is key!
I always recommend that couples delegate some tasks to those around them. Without the option of delegating, you’ll be doing it all yourselves. And let me tell you, it’s not easy.
So, wondering how to delegate and which tasks you can entrust other people with? Take a peek at our tips and ideas below…
How to delegate
Be open with your friends and family that you need their help. You can decide how much detail you give, but if you don’t ask, the answer will always be no!
Create a list of what needs to be done and who can take on which tasks. I’ll share a list in a moment of tasks that can easily be delegated without adding too much stress!
Let your partner know how you’re feeling and work together to get things done.
Wedding planning tasks you can delegate
- Everything to do with the hen and stag parties – leave it up to your wedding party to handle this. Just tell them the kind of thing you’d like to do (whether it’s a weekend away, a night out or a relaxing night in) and a few dates you’re available.
- Anything that needs to be handwritten (like place cards or addressing envelopes).
- Things that need to be assembled or tied together (like favours or invitation packs).
- Making a list of songs you want to play.
- Dress duty – someone to correctly store your dress before the wedding so it’s in pristine condition.
- Pick ups and deliveries – think about your decor, favours, and any other items that need to be picked up, delivered or returned. Someone else can handle this for you.
- Set up – this should be done by your wedding venue, planner, decor team or other professionals.
Bonus: A guided meditation
If wedding planning tasks are feeling a little overwhelming and stress has gotten the better of you, take a look at this: