If you’ve got a dog who is also your bestie, then you’ve probably already started thinking about how you can include them in your Big Day! There are a few things to consider before making this decision… and then, if you decide to go for it, then we’ve got some logistics and things to help make this experience really special for your pup. If you’re planning a dog-friendly wedding, then this is for you!
A HUGE thank you to this week’s guest expert, Paulina from Dogs Trust.
Ask your venue
Many venues will have a policy of sorts regarding pets and animals, which they can share with you. Be sure to ask your venue before you start doing any pet-related planning! Some venues may be totally ok with your dog being indoors or outdoors, while others will only allow dogs outdoors, and some won’t allow pets on site at all.
There are plenty of dog-friendly wedding venues in Ireland which pride themselves on how they go above and beyond for their furry guests too – venues which have safe grounds for pets to enjoy a walk, dog-friendly rooms, water bowls, and some with kennels on site, including treats, toys and water! Check them out here!
Side note: Wedding venues are legally required to allow guide dogs (listen to episode 36 for more information on planning a disability-friendly wedding).
Consider your pup’s personality
Having your dog at your wedding may be your idea of a fabulous day, but it might not be up your dog’s alley. Some dogs are shy and introverted while others get overly excited and energetic. Seriously consider if your pet’s personality will allow them to shine or if they’ll feel anxious and unsettled all day.
I spoke with Paulina Padlo, who is the Communications Manager at Dogs Trust. They are Ireland’s largest dog welfare charity and they rescue and rehome dogs all over Ireland. They’ve rehomed over 23,000 dogs since opening their rehoming centre in Finglas in 2009.
I asked Paulina what a couple should keep in mind when deciding to include their dog in their wedding. This is what she said:
Including your dog in your wedding can be such a heartwarming way to celebrate your bond but it’s really important to make sure that they’ll enjoy it too!
- The first thing to think about is their actual personality – are they comfortable in large crowds? Are they easily overwhelmed?
- If they are on the shyer side, it doesn’t mean you can’t include them at all – you could include them in the pre-wedding photo shoot or in a quieter event leading up to the day.
- If they are joining the wedding, make sure there is someone designated to look after them – and make sure it’s someone they know and are comfortable with!
- Finally, when it comes to dressing them up, simplicity is key! A cute bowtie or bandana would be adorable without making them uncomfortable on the day.
Think about the walks
Consider how many walks your dog goes on each day and then think about the structure of your wedding. Weddings don’t often have time for the breaks your dog will need, so schedule in times throughout the day where your pup can run around and let off steam.
Evaluate your setting
Think about your wedding venue and evaluate if this is a great space for your dog to spend the day. A city wedding venue, a fancy hotel or a venue with very little outdoor space might not be a good fit. A solution could be for somebody to collect your pet after the ceremony.
Food and water
You’ll spend months agonising over the food and drinks for your guests so don’t forget to take care of your pet too! Arrange food and water bowls and don’t forget to ask your venue what they will provide and what they’re happy to distribute to your pet.
Logistics
Do you want your dog to be with you for the whole day? Just the ceremony? The outdoor reception only? Consider your options and plan accordingly! Who will drive your pet around and make sure they have everything they need?
Their favourite things
Keep your pet comfy with their favourite things! We’re talking about their toys, snacks and a cosy bed or blanket. You want your dog to be entertained and comfortable all day.
Your dog may also need to take some time out during the day, so why not bring their bed, along with their favourite toy to help them settle in an unfamiliar environment.
Consider your guests
Have you got any guests who are allergic to dogs? Or any venue staff, suppliers or guests who are afraid of dogs? It certainly doesn’t have to be ‘them or the dog’, but you could let people know your pup will be there on the day, so they can keep their distance or bring along anti-histamines.
