First of all, congratulations! Getting engaged is such an exciting milestone, but it’s completely normal to feel a little (or a lot) overwhelmed once the initial excitement settles. With so many decisions to make and tasks to juggle, it’s easy to feel unsure about where to begin. Don’t worry! You’re not alone, and we’re here to walk you through the first steps so you can enjoy this special time without the stress.
Share the Big News
It may seem obvious, but sharing your engagement news is a great first step! Call your parents, text your closest friends, and prepare your Instagram announcement if you’re going public.
Pro Tip: Let your inner circle know before sharing the news online. It’s a thoughtful way to avoid unintentionally hurting feelings.
And remember, there’s no rush. You don’t have to announce your engagement immediately. Take your time and share the news when it feels right for you.
Pause Before You Plan
Yes, there’s a lot to think about… but before diving into guest lists and venue tours, take a deep breath. Enjoy the moment. Go on a date night, plan a mini getaway, or even throw a casual engagement party if you feel up for it. This stage is about celebrating your commitment, not just ticking things off a to-do list.
If you’re planning a short engagement, you might feel the pressure to move quickly, and that’s okay too. Just make sure you’re doing things at a pace that feels right for you and your partner.
Get Organised
When you’re ready to start planning, begin by getting organised. Talk with your partner about the type of wedding you both want. What are your priorities? Maybe a great photographer tops your list, or perhaps having a cosy, intimate dinner matters most.
To keep everything in one place, try using a wedding planning app where you can track your budget, guest list, and supplier contacts.
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Follow a Planning Checklist
One of the best ways to reduce wedding stress is by knowing what to do and when. A structured checklist can help break the planning process down into manageable steps. We’ve created a free 12-month wedding planning checklist to help guide you through every stage.
>> Click here to download our 12 month wedding planning checklist <<
Join a Wedding Planning Community
You don’t have to do this alone! Join our wedding planning community on Facebook to connect with other engaged couples. You’ll get firsthand advice, supplier recommendations, and the chance to share both your challenges and celebrations with people who get it.
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Preventing Wedding Planning Overwhelm
If you’re already feeling the pressure, you’re not alone, and there are simple ways to manage it. Start by setting realistic expectations and focusing on one task at a time. Delegate whenever you can, and don’t hesitate to ask for help from your partner, friends, or even a professional planner. Most importantly, remember that your wedding is just one day – the real goal is building a life together. It’s okay to say no to traditions that don’t suit you and to prioritise what truly matters. Take breaks when needed, and give yourself permission to enjoy the process, not just the outcome.
Featured image credit: Stefano Ferrier
