Being engaged is an exciting time, but before the whirlwind of wedding planning really kicks in, it’s worth taking a moment to enjoy this special chapter. To help you make the most of it, we’ve put together an engagement bucket list of ten essential things to do before you say ‘I do’.
1. Announce Your News
Start by sharing your engagement with family and friends. It’s a big moment, so tell your inner circle first, then spread the joy more widely. Taking your time with this can make the announcement feel even more memorable.
2. Take a Breather Before Planning
You don’t need to dive straight into spreadsheets and supplier calls. Take some time to enjoy being engaged. Plan a mini-break, go on a few dates, or host a small engagement party to soak up the excitement.
3. Get Organised
Before you tackle decisions about venues or décor, get your notes, budget, and timelines in order. Being organised early makes the entire planning journey smoother and less stressful.
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4. Use a Wedding Planning Checklist
A checklist is your best friend. It helps you track what needs to be done and when, from booking suppliers to sending invitations. Having one at hand means you won’t forget important steps and can tick off achievements as you go.
Related: Your 12 month wedding planning checklist
5. Join a Community
Wedding planning doesn’t have to be done alone. Online communities and local groups can offer support, advice, and recommendations. Engaging with other couples can help you learn from their experiences and feel less overwhelmed.
Related: Join the ‘HIGM (weddingsonline.ie – Help! I’m Getting Married)’ community
6. Decide on Your Wedding Style
Before booking a venue or sending Save The Dates, be clear about the type of wedding you want. Will it be big or intimate, traditional or modern? Knowing your vision early helps guide all your subsequent choices.
7. Familiarise Yourself with Legal Requirements
Understanding the legal aspects of getting married in Ireland is important. Research what documentation is required and the steps for registering intent to marry. This ensures there are no last-minute surprises closer to your date.
Related: How to get legally married in Ireland
8. Set a Date and Start Planning
Choose a time of year, consider your engagement length, and identify any special dates. Whether you book your dream venue first or set a date and then search for the perfect spot, having a clear timeline helps structure your planning.
9. Find Your Supplier Dream Team
Start thinking about which suppliers you’ll need early on. From photographers and videographers to your ceremony and reception venues, band, DJ, or wedding planner, booking early helps secure your favourites and avoids last-minute stress.
10. Keep Notes and Ask Questions
When meeting suppliers or visiting venues, take a notebook and jot down questions. Check contracts carefully, consider off-peak options, and clarify everything before paying deposits. Staying organised in this way saves headaches later.
Bottom Line
Your engagement is the perfect time to lay the groundwork for a smooth and enjoyable wedding planning journey. By tackling these ten steps, you’ll be prepared, organised, and able to enjoy this special time together.
Action step: Pick one item from your engagement bucket list this week – whether it’s deciding your wedding style, creating a checklist, or contacting a key supplier – and take that first step toward your big day.
Featured image credit: Laura and Benny Photography
