21st July 2011 19:07i just found out i am pregnant with no2 and my head is all over the place. so many questions and worries running around!!! first of all i am not sure what to do about gp and hospital. my ds was born in limerick mat, i had a very very quick labour, didnt nearly make it to hospital because of bad advice from midwife when i rang who said stay at home its my first i couldnt be so far along already-i was getting contractions every three minutes and felt like pushing !! so ds was nearly born on side of road, had to get garda escort to get us there on time,arrived at hospital pushing, ds born 20 minutes after arriving at hospital, no time for anyhting like take off clothes etc. so the midwife delivering was fab but then the after care was brutal, no beds, no help bf'ing, left home too early even though ds had jaundice and was rehospitalised a day after disharge due to dehydration and high bilirubin levels. basically hated my expreince in limerick mat. now its second time around i am considering going to tralee as i am from kerry and family live down there so they can mind ds when i go in to labour. my only concern is they wont know my history about fast labour and what would happen if i went early when at home in limerick??? has anyone any expereince of tralee -going public???? would really love to hear anyones expereinces, good or bad. then that leads me to my gp prob. my gp last pg was in kerry(my old gp) who i find fantastic, but i am not sure whether to go to a gp in limerick as i live there or stick with kerry gp??? if i go to limerick gp i will have nobody to mind ds so he will have to come with me to appts, if i go to kerry gp my mum can mind him for the time i am at appt. we go home to visit once a week anyway. any advice would be helpful girls. thanks. my head is wrecked!!!