17th April 2007 23:47
I had the same concern, hubby couldn't make the first one and I thought I'd look like a spare part on my own. Panic not!
The first one isn't really an ante-natal class at all. A big room full of women (and two or three men) get to listen to a physiotherapist, a social worker and a midwife. While you're listening to them talk and practicing your pelivic floor exercises, your hospital appointment cards are being marked up with the date of your next ante-natal.
For the remaining classes you'll be broken up into smaller groups and will cover parenting classes too. These remaining classes are going to be five weeks in a row and will bring you up to a few weeks before your EDD. So, for example, if your appointment is this Thursday, then you'll have five Thursdays in a row, ending about three to four weeks before you're due.
You can find out in advance what will be covered at each class and decide which ones hubby would most benefit from.
TBH I was happy that himself didn't take time off. There weren't that many men there and it was more about how to ensure you sleep comfortably when the bump starts growing, how to do your pelvic floor exercises, what the legal entitlements were for maternity leave, etc. The men won't appreciate hearing the word 'vagina' that frequently either!