10th May 2007 12:56
I would wait. You wouldn't' be able to fly anywhere on honeymoon and if you had a rough time with sickness etc., it'd be tough. I got married last year and I found my wedding stressful to organise (though well worth it!) I'm almost eight weeks preg. now

and having a lovely easy time touch wood, not much nausea, just very tired but what i do notice is, in work, stress really gets to me. I kinda feel like I should be cocooned in a little bubble, away from the real world (which I'm not, at all!!!). What I'm saying is that for me, little things seem harder to organise etc. now and I don't really want to interact with people as much as before. I'm sure it'll pass and maybe not everyone feels it but it just makes me very glad that I'm not doing anything major this year except have a baby, please God!
Of course, the other issue is God forbid, anything went wrong and you had to go on bed rest or something, your wedding might be negatively effected, ....I know that's a very small chance, but if you are considering all the pros and cons, you might want to consider that.
If I were you, Id get married first, even consider bringing the wedding forward if poss if you want to get started and then get stuck in to ttc as randy newlyweds!!
Of course, people get married in early preg. all the time and its works out great and any time is a great time to get pregnant if that's where your at but they would just be things that I would think about

Good luck whatever u choose
lal