Are BM presents necessary when you

are already paying for Dress Shoes Hair (+trial) Makeup (+trial) Tan Underwear Accessories Accommodation Just looking for advice as I feel i'm spending enough...am I being mean?

I'm doing the same but the accessories are technically their gifts, giving them necklace and earing sets and the chief is getting a matching bracelt too as a little something extra. giving out all the gifts at the rehersal dinner the night before.

Same here. I'm getting them jewellery and thats going to double as their present.

me too i am also giving them dressing gowns and slippers with there names on them to wear the morning of the wedding

I'm doing as the others and going to give them the jewellery on the morning of the wedding as a gift. Otherwise, I'd be totally stuck on what to get them

I am giving them a pamper basket with their jewellery inside it as their present... Why are you paying for their underwear????? Surely they can get their own....

[quote="aideenalishous":22oszkgc]I am giving them a pamper basket with their jewellery inside it as their present... Why are you paying for their underwear????? Surely they can get their own....[/quote:22oszkgc] +1 this is what I'm doing. Definately wont be paing for their underwar though! They can wear what they want

[quote="hollywoodbride":28b52m7c]me too i am also giving them dressing gowns and slippers with there names on them to wear the morning of the wedding[/quote:28b52m7c] +1

You have done more than enough there my dear!

thanks guys - I think so too!!