Hi Baby Ball,
Just a quick tie in that might be of interest. We filmed a recent music video at Ballymargarvey (6 weeks ago) and you might be interested in seeing the hotel on film. http://milehigh.ie/watch-our-video/
Ballymagarvey is a great venue and the staff there are lovely. Also a lovely intimate room ands great for a party.
I also have to say that Middleton House is a great venue as well. We have been there twice this eyar as well. Very different venue but both quality orientated and you will have a great day at either.
Best of luck with you decisions and if there is anything else i can give my ten cents on let me know.