15th June 2007 08:59My H2B said he would do anything I asked of him to arrange our wedding.Great, I thought, a man who understands!! There's 3 tasks we agreed he would do: 1. Get his pre-nup enquiry filled out with his parish priest 2. Get the mass booklets printed up. 3. Organise the mens suits. Now, this was all agreed in March when we got engaged. Now, its 7 wks to wedding and he's only done task number 1 and half of task 3. He went to arrange the suits last night, with my Dad and his Dad. Got them measured, but they couldnt try on suits as the shop only had 1 member of staff and the storeroom was locked up. Now, thats understandable, but I had asked him to ring to make appt and make sure they could try stuff on, as his Dad etc had to take time off to go and get fitted etc and trying to get a time that suits all 3 of them, has been a nightmare.(according to him, he doesnt remember me asking him to ring them) He didnt call ahead and now, they have been measured, but have not tried anything on. Which normally is fine, but when H2B went for his 1st fitting, they measured him, but when he put that size on, it wasnt the right fit, so I'm hoping this wont be the case with all of them & it will only be 4 days before the weddign, that they all go and collect their suits. if they're wrong, whats going to happen?! More: he needed to get all their shirt sizes-we are buying nice double cuffed tailored shirts for each of them (we were getting cufflinks & shirts as pressies for them) so i needed all of the neck sizes. He came home with only 3 out of the 4 we need. To top this off, we havent closed the sale on our home yet, so when we do, it will be a rush to decorate, move in and get things sorted for the wedding. I tried to explain this to him without losing my head. I know he doesnt do these things to specifically annoy me, but I feel under such pressure and I honestly cant see the wood for the trees at this stage. When all this kicked off, I decided to go and have a shower-before I said/did something I regretted. Then I came down, explained calmly how I felt, then he made excuses etc and I got so angry. I threw him out of my parents house last night. Like a mad woman. Just opened the door and asked him to leave. This whole thing is upsetting me and even after writing this post, my blood is just boiling. I didnt ask much of him and after I said I didnt mind organising everything else, all I asked was 3 little things. Arrgghh.