the run up to the wedding are you all stressed or totally relaxed.......
coming from an old married woman perspective
i was very calm (unnaturally for me) up until our family and friends started to arrive in malta then i went into crying/shaking/nauseous mode from 2 days before until the day of - until i was left in the room with my dad before walking down to ceremony
he said some lovely things and made it all much better
take time out before hand to relax and think about how you are dont fill your day with so many appts and running around you dont know whether you are coming or going take a moment to breathe and consider what this marriage will mean to your life
and then come here and rant to us about it
I've stopped caring about little things that no-one else will notice. If they get done, marvellous, if not well I'm still gonna have a class day with loads of champagne, oh and I'll tie the knot too
Pretty relaxed really. I'm a bit sick of the whole thing so can't wait for the day to actually be here
[quote="Loopy Loo":2onzddlf]Pretty relaxed really. I'm a bit sick of the whole thing so can't wait for the day to actually be here
I'm fairly relaxed right now but that might change on the week of the wedding!
I know I'm still a while off yet but am so mixed about it all. H2B and I having a few problems at the moment which isn't helping, but I go between wishing it was tomorrow and wishing I had a few months left to get ready. Then last night I had a random thought that I am too young to be married - you know that whole 'old married woman' thing which I don't see myself as, and then wondering if I am mature enought to get married.
So, basically to answer the question, I'm a bag of excited nerves, not knowing if I'm coming or going.