18th December 2007 09:46
Ok, this is going to sound ridiculous but here goes;
Last night we didn't get to bed until late, I ended up watching the end of war of the roses and it went on until after one, h2b was reading.
I really, really, really hate being cold, h2b goes around in t-shirts for alot of the year. Anyway he was driving me a bit nuts last night as every now and again he would make jerky movements in bed and disrupt all the bed clothes and make the bed cold. I said nothing. Then there was the odd comment - Oh she's a bit mad isn't she (the wife in war of the roses), just a little jokey comment but if any of you know the movie, it's about a divorcing couple that destroy their whole house and eventually both die in a bid to outdo the other. So I said they are both a bid mad and it went on like that.
Eventually the movie was over and telly was turned off and then bed side light was turned off. I was trying to drop hints about being cold ( ie stop disrupting the bed clothes), oh will you get me new pj's for xmas etc. Nothing was sinking in. So I said very crossly I am freezing will you ever stop moving around the bed....huff...huff...huff. H2b was moving around in the middle of the bed meaning I was shoved over on my side of the bed. Then he decided to fall asleep in the middle of the bed, on his side facing me, so I could feel his cold breath on my face (silent aarrrggghhhh on my part) this carried on, I tried to push him back over to his side of the bed, no joy, then a few minuted later he jumped in his sleep and this frightened the bajasus out of me. So I said really crossly and loudly at him 'WILL YOU EVER GET OVER TO YOUR SIDE OF THE BED AND STOP BREATHING ON ME' he moved about an inch and carried on sleeping on his side but closed his mouth, BUT the cold air was still coming out of his nostrels, so I leaned over and breathed really heavily on his face ( i know this is where I started loosing it a bit
). He woke up and was like Delish have you gone fvcking mad or what? So then I really let loose and shouted at him 'it was the same night in and night out, him breathing on me and constantly making the bed cold, and get OVER on to his own side of the bed!!!!!!!
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So then he said I was gone f ing mad and he turned his back on me and slept on his side of the bed. I didn't hear him leave this morning. I think it was all an over reaction, but I feel quite upset about it all now, and to make me feel even guiltier I think because the bed wasn't made last night alot of the covers were on my side (but all he had to do was pull the covers over so they were even and then stop messing with the flipping bed).
Sorry I know this is ridiculous, but we never fight and I hate when he uses bad language at me. It's all stupid I know, but how much in the wrong do you think I am, Should I call now and clear the air?
)...but add in that you do kind of need your space at the moment when you're sleeping and the slightest thing wakes you, so if he could try and remember that. But make light of it, coz as the time goes on it will probably start bugging you even more. I reckon in a couple of months times, spare rooms will come in VERY handy!! 