I am the sister of the bride and also bridesmaid as well as stand in mother of the bride and main helper of the wedding. Our mum and dad recently passed away so I really feel the pressure to help make my sisters wedding a massive success. I have been put in charge of the hen and I haven't a clue what to organise for her. She won't go away for a night or weekend, she says that she doesn't want a hen but we all know that she would love it once the time comes and she deserves some celebration - she isn't a big drinker or party animal but she is has a seriously fun goofy side to her. She is based in Derry but I haven't lived there for 20 years so I genuinely don't know anywhere- would anyone be able to give me a few ideas of what we could do?