25th July 2018 11:53My sister has asked me to be matron of honor. We are not close and never have been. She is asking me because I’m her sister and she has told me this. We get each other’s back up all the time and I always feel tense and on edge when I’m around her we are very different. I feel this will destroy and fragment of a relationship we have. She has told me to show up on the day and she doesn’t want me to help or do anything. I fear this will not be the case as she is very controlling. My husband thinks I’m mad if I go ahead with it as she will lay down terms and conditions and I’ll spend the next year and a half being bullied. When she asked me all I felt was anxiety and dread. Which are not the right emotions.