Maybe it's just because I work in a pretty liberal, creative type job and have fairly liberal friends but I feel really judged when I say I'm having a church wedding....I'm sure people felt this back in the day when they had a civil ceremony! Has anyone else experienced the 'oh really? in a church?' moment? Or people saying 'I wouldn't go near a church' or bringing up the church's views on same sex marriage/women/abortion/etc! Coz this has happened to me!