I'm meeting with photographer in the coming weeks, (whenever he is in my area!) and i think I am finally settled on the video.. We went to see a band showcase and we liked them, waiting to see another local band who are v popular, was meant to see them last week but they messaged me a week before to say the wedding had been called off!
After that the "little" things can wait while i loose my life saving!
Similar situation also, i know a girl getting married in June 18 and she has EVERYTHING done! Wouldnt agree on that, id rather wait & get my dress, i change my mind that often!