9th October 2011 17:26So mad with her but dont want to fall out! I went shopping for the day with my mum to get her a mother of the bride outfit, what we got was lovely, gorgeous dress with jacket, really pleased. The next thing I hear (not from her) she has brought it back and gone and bought something else. Just a plain dress, jersey kind of fabric with sleeves, no jacket, she wont wear a hat or fascinator and to top it all of she bought SHOOBS to go with it. Bloody shoe boot things, with a jersey dress. HELP ME!! MIL is going to be all glam in a gorgeous outfit and I want my mum to look special as Mother of the Bride. And I cant help but feeling that she is being really selfish. She keeps saying she wants to be comfortable, but it does matter how she looks too doesnt it? God I know some people are going to say its more important that she's comfortable and Im being the selfish one - but is there even one person out there who can say Im not being unreasonable?