Non 'tacky' ideas :)

Loving the thread on 'what makes a wedding tacky'. Would be interested however to know what people think is classy and tasteful in a wedding? I've loads of ideas of what not to have

Similar to the 'what makes a wedding tacky' thread you'll get a mix bagged here as what one person thinks is tasteful another person thinks is tacky. In my case I'm going for understated room decor and no gimicky things like candy tables or chocolate fountains. I don't want my wedding to be too simple but I don't want it to fussy either if that makes sense!!