We were at a wedding and when I arrived, he was on the phone to one of them, a girl who he is very friendly and who is in hospital called him to say that her stalker had turned up at their place of work and what would she do etc. This girl has a boyfriend of a number of years. Over the few days her illness was confirmed and She text him to tell him and he asked will he call her and she said Yes Do. I had no problem whatsoever with him calling her. And over that weekend she called him a number of times to tell him the story, prognosis etc.
Fast Forward about a week and 5 of their work colleagues (all girls) went to visit the girl (the patient we’ll call her) in hospital. Over the weekend one of them text him and he called her back. She said they had been to the hospital a few days previously and that 2 of the group (one of the girls who has previously called him a bully) never stopped cutting the back off him the entire time, saying that he was annoying, that they bunny about him all the time, that they don’t listen to him when he talks and other similar stuff … and they were raging that he had phoned the girl who was sick, the previous week. Yet, his “friend” the patient never once spoke up that it was her in fact who was calling him and said to the group “Yeah I don’t even know why he was calling me”. The girl who accused him of being a bully had arranged to bring a gift on the visit on behalf of them all and included 2 other men that work with them, but they never asked My Guy to contribute, never mentioned to him at all. During the course of the back stabbing and slating, they kept asking the girl who told him about all of this, was he still seeing me. I have only met any of them once at a wedding. She said she didn’t know his business but yet again the “patient” never said he was at a wedding that he had been with me at a wedding the last week. He claims he said he told her where he was that day. I’m sure this all sounds very petty as I write it, but I am kind of bothered by it. He said that the girl who accused him of being a bully and was doing the most of the cutting of him probably fancies him ? He met her out some weeks back, I wasn’t with him the same night but he said that she asked for me and said I was a very nice girl.
I am just very confused about the whole thing … It sounds very bizarre. I feel like I’m missing a few pieces of the story ? I can’t understand why the girl who is sick, who he is most friendly with, firstly would sit there and allow them absolutely slate him like that and not speak up for him, if they are supposed to be such great friends, and then never let on that he is with me, if she knew!
Am I just being silly and over thinking the whole thing … or is he telling the whole story .. ?