Just a little update, thanks for all the input!
Went to see simbas on stradbrook road, think might go with that. They do option of 2,3, 4 or 5 mornings a week and they have a toddler room like playschool which is where I think I will put dd as she has been home with me since birth so needs slow intro! Will move her into Montessori room for the second year then she starts school sept 2014. It's nice and small there so homey feel to it and seemed a really happy environment. Rowan house only do 5 day week and wee care had the "part timers" in room away from everyone else in the basement. The crèche kiddies are in a separate Montessori in main part of house, I understand the reasons for this but as dd would be mornings only she would be in basement room just felt bit strange to me. Maybe I'm over thinking it! Just got the feeling it was all about full time/ crèche kids and the morning montessori kids were an aside. Seemed like a great crèche tho and lovely staff there.
Missing my two angel babies in heaven
Jan '12 @ 16wks & Jul '12 @ 10wks