Finicky Fi
Posts: 2134
21st April 2011 00:52
Inspired by coverage of a certain footballer!
im waiting
Posts: 2727
21st April 2011 01:07
I disagree! People do change so I don't believe in that saying.
Rogue User
Posts: 6101
21st April 2011 07:35
DISAGREE _ I am the proof! I was the biggest cheater ever, I cheated on every single boyfriend I ever had, some long term, some short term. Then I met my OH and I haven't ever cheated and never will! You just have to find the right person.
SunnyK
Posts: 3834
21st April 2011 09:00
Agree in the most part tbh. From my own experience people may THINK that they can / will stop cheating but a lot of the time after a while they fall back into it again.
I do believe they can change if they really want to but I think the temptation is just too much for some people to resist!
ReginaFalange
Posts: 10290
21st April 2011 09:04
Hmmmmm- this is a toughie. I don’t think that just because someone once cheated on a boyfriend means that they will cheat on their current partner however, I do think that if you’ve cheated on your partner and get away with it you’ll do it again (to that partner).
BTW- which footballer??
Rogue User
Posts: 6101
21st April 2011 09:06
[quote="ReginaFalange":1h5gur3o]Hmmmmm- this is a toughie. I don’t think that just because someone once cheated on a boyfriend means that they will cheat on their current partner however, I do think that if you’ve cheated on your partner and get away with it you’ll do it again (to that partner).
BTW- which footballer??[/quote:1h5gur3o]
All of them!
ReginaFalange
Posts: 10290
21st April 2011 09:07
just saw the footballer thread. I sat beside him once in the airport!! My claim to fame

No footballer cheating story would surprise me actually.
SunnyK
Posts: 3834
21st April 2011 09:08
[quote="BrideOfRecession":2vwxshb7][quote="ReginaFalange":2vwxshb7]Hmmmmm- this is a toughie. I don’t think that just because someone once cheated on a boyfriend means that they will cheat on their current partner however, I do think that if you’ve cheated on your partner and get away with it you’ll do it again (to that partner).
BTW- which footballer??[/quote:2vwxshb7]
All of them![/quote:2vwxshb7]

So true!
lolabelle
Posts: 3311
21st April 2011 09:13
I don't believe in the saying. You just have to meet the right person.
blondiechick
Posts: 1641
21st April 2011 09:20
If it was the case you cheated on a not-so-serious boyfriend or something, then I would disagree. But I have clicked 'agree' because if he was married, then he broke a marriage vow and there is no excuse and he obviously has no respect for his wife, or morals so therefore what would stop him in the future? So yes, if married and someone cheated I would agree with the above saying.