Its actually the sperm not the actuall deed thats meant to get things moving!! I really don't know if me on top would work but I'm willing to try, as well the only time really we get to dtd is at night time and thats when I'm least in the mood so the thoughts of trying out new moves is at its least appealing!! If DH was around in the morning/afternoon it would be a different story!!
Are you not worried than doing it doggy style your DH will get very excitable and not rough exactly but will bang off you hard
(Oh God im dying).
Poor DH thinks he is a porn star when we do it this position and im afraid he might do damage!!!!!
Ok morto writing this.
my poor dh was worried about hurting the baby so has been keeping well away from me so it's been me running after him the whole time!! is anyone else in this "position", pardon the pun!
[quote:ec4i5eyp] Poor DH thinks he is a porn star when we do it this position and im afraid he might do damage!!!!! [/quote:ec4i5eyp]
yeah, but not on all fours which allows for a lot of penetration, i mean only on your knees, which allows you to call the shots!
[quote:18hcco5k] mrs jay wrote: the best one for me at this stage is both of us kneeling up - that way you can kind of control the angle and depth.
[quote:18hcco5k]ladydi wrote: Sorry Mrs Jay I'm not sure I know what position you mean here, is that doggy you mean??
. I could count on one hand the amount of times we have DTD since getting BFP. To be fair before all of this he was the one who always done the chasing, it would be nice to think he still fancies me
. Like the other night in bed I got on top of him and all he could do was laugh because the bump was between us, then asked me to get off cos I was too heavy.
Is it just me or is anyone elses hubby just not up for it (pardon the pun). I mean some nights I'm mad for a bit of loving and put out the signals but he just doesn't seem interested
Mrs Jay I know what you mean now, that sound like it might be an option actually!!
Ahh new girl don't worry I think some men are actually afraid to dtd, I think they worry they'll do damage or something. I know exactly how you feel, you want to be told all the time you look great by your DH when your pregnant as you feel so big, so when they do something like that it doesn't help with all the hormones raging. They just don't think about what they're saying. I know some men though that would prefer not to dth when their wife is pregnant. Would you not just ask him straight out?
There's a lot of pun's flying around here!!
Usually I go on top of DH but feeling very heavy these days so try not to land all my weight on him. Another one that suits us is doggy style but me leaning over a few pillows and its quite comfortable.
Both DH and I have a high sex drive but with all the movement going on in my pelvis and hips these days its putting me off a little. I do try to "pleasure" my DH instead and these days all I need is smoochy lovin!
, when after a good few hints on my part without much of a reaction from dh, it all got a bit much for me and i had a bit of a hormonal "you don't fancy me anymore" moment
after lots of tlc he basically told me that he feels a bit strange doing it with the baby, he's afraid he'll hurt it or me and would rather leave me do my own thing rather than be chasing after me when i mightn't feel like it.
tbh, now that i've got it out of my system, i'm happy to leave things be for another while - i don't find it hugely comfortable tbh...
you'll have to ask your own dh but i'm sure it's something similar that's going through his mind
newgirl - sure i'm the exact same. last week it all came to a head, so to speak
DH has always gone on top since bfp, but it didn't work at the weekend coz I'm too big. We tried loads of different positions but the only one that worked (after a lot of perseverance) was doggy