16th October 2012 20:58
[quote="MrsPositive":12ntm0wk]You're going to get alot of responses on this and only you can make the decision. Personally I dont like when people say its a waste of money going private, I feel if thats what you want to do then go for it.
Personally, for me I decided to go private, because of a number of reasons, I am 36 and I wanted to meet my consultant at EVERY visit to the clinic.
I wanted reassurance and the continuity of care that comes with a private consultant as its my first baby. I also didnt want to be waiting for 3/4 hours at the hospital for appointments.
It is nothing to do with the 'private room' for me, that makes absolutely no difference. Its the extra scans and being seen on a very regular basis that clinched it for me.
My sister has gone public as her doc told her it was a 'waste of money' and shes ok with her treatment but she said its a conveyer belt in CUMH rushing everyone, she hasnt met a consultant yet and shes 25 weeks now.
But if you're the type of person that feels public is for you then thats excellent, sure thousands and thousands of women get on fantastic in the public system. Dont feel pressured into going private if you are happy to go public.
See how you feel but private will probably cost you in the region of 2k euro.
For me=money well spent. But thats just my opinion.
(ps in the begining my husband was saying to go public but now he sees the care Im getting hes happy that I decided to go private)
If we are lucky enough to have another baby who knows I may go public xx
Best of luck its a very exciting time for you xxxxxxx

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I have to totally agree with Mrs Positive. I also feel if you go private you have someone there thats for you and you alone the day baby comes along. If that makes sense, while all doctors have your best interest at heart, there is a different level of care in my opinion. My sister in law had her baby last week and she was private, she was in a semi private room for one night sharing with a public patient, the other womans child had been born with massive health complications that were not picked up along the way. She had different doctors and midwives coming in dealing with it, all giving varying information. My SIL felt that it was shocking that so many different people were dealing with the same patient. The poor woman was understandably distraught, SIL felt that no one was taking control and helping to guide her, which a private consultant would do. Another plus, on the private side is that if you do end up needing stitches you're very experienced consultant will be doing it, and not some reg or SHO with only a few years experience!! Thats just MY VIEW, and I'm sure I'll be taken out and shot for it by those who dont agree. €3000 will buy a lot of things for baby when they come along but I'm looking at it as an insurance policy on my unborn child. I insure my house and my car, and they're inanimate objects, so if I can afford it, why wouldn't I insure my baby.......