18th August 2006 10:59
Hiya,
I am going private with O'Reilly in Finbar's, although am due in March so might make CUH but won't hold my breath! I wanted Dr Green but he is not taking any new patients. O'Reilly can't see me for ages but he was my friend's gyne and she had a terrible pg and tough birth and she said he was absolutely brilliant, so that's why I chose him. Midwives were demanding a C section for her that she didn't want and he swooped in and got that little one out, no problem and saved her from the scalpel.
Personally, I couldn't justify the cost of the Bons and anyway, prefer to be soemwhere with a neo-natal unit for fear of being separated from the little one if anything isn't quite right.
I chose Finbar's over the Erinville for the simple reason that I have never been to the Erinville and all my friends went to Finbar's and were pleased with it.
I went private as it is my first baby and want a bit of 'hand holding' I guess. Also, I have been told that you are more likely to be induced and have a C-section as a public patient and get more say in what you want as a private one. Also, friends have reported long delays waiting for gyne apts in overcrowded waiting rooms and having to give medical details to a nurse in front of everyone as there is no room for separate office in one place.
The public care is excellent, everyone says that, but I prefer to see the same gyne each visit and know that he will be there if I get in trouble. I also want my own bathroom cos after giving birth, I will live in shower as am clean freak!
It's a very personal choice. If I had to go public, I would, no problem as the care is great; my pal with 3 kids can testify to that. My Dh wants me to go private though and both sets of parents are agast that it's not the Bons but I am happy with my decision.
I am happy to pay 2k for this one, but would probably go public with number two though.