7th October 2008 11:58
Hi
Around €400 plus bills sounds about right.
I have rented a room for about 4 years and have been burnt a few times.
First of all If you don't insist on a standing order designate a day of the week, date of the month etc so that it is clear when the rent is due..
Also unless you smoke yourself I would have a no smoking policy as one of mine was smoking in bed ( even though the add in the paper etc said no smoking)

The duvet caught up but luckily she put it out as quick but the whole place could have gone up.
Also set rules about the bleeding obvious such as doing the dishes etc..
Make sure they know that NO-ONE is to get a key , maybe say overnight guests are fine but only when they themselves are there. I woke up in the middle of the night as met a strange girl in the hall as I was going to the loo... my flatmate was at work at the time,,,needless to say I was not impressed...I explained that I was really dissappointed and let down and it has been fine since...but she knows that I was livid..
It is also a good idea to agree on the boyfriend staying over etc maybe limite the nights a week etc , a friend of mine had her flatmate's boyfriend staying 4 or 5 times a week as he lived at home and no opportunity for you know what otherwise... she ended up leaving because she felt like a third wheel when she wanted to watch tele etc and even though she had a word with her friend it made no difference..
Also agree a month/6 weeks initially etc so that if either party is not happy they can leave, you can ask them to leave etc...
It would be a good idea to install ntl into their bedroom and yours so that if someone has someone ( Friend etc) over for the evening they can have a bit of privacy with them etc without the other one being deprived of the tele..
Also remember as harsh as it sounds that they are your lodger not your friend and you need to keep a bit of a seperation there... If you ever need to insist on the rent , have a conversation about personal hygiene, hygiene in the house etc( had to have that one) that you are not too involved and able to do it without feeling guilty...
Also always remember it is your home too and you have a right to insist on it being kept clean , rent and bills paid and common respect for your belongings, you don't have to feel guilty about that and it is up to them to make sure that they do that not you to stand over them...You are not going to be asked to leave ...
I would not do it if I did not need to as at times it does not feel like your own home but we can't have our cake and it eat...
Good luck and PM me if you have anyquestions you don't want to ask on the forum... Trust me I have learned the hard way in some cases and even had to involve the guards once....