I agree that what works for one does not work for all. In our case we kept baby downstairs with us till about 11 weeks. She then out grew the moses basket so she was in her cot in her own room. In the space of a few weeks bedtime moved earlier and earlier till eventually it was 8pm - 8am with one feed during. I wanted a good routine for baby that didn't include sleeping in our bed, in 4yrs she has slept in with me twice and only because she was ill. She likes her own space and we are happy with that. I have similar hopes for this baby but I am not going to worry if it doesn't happen the same way. Every baby is different.