20th June 2011 09:17HI Ladies Just wanted to ask have you put an RSVP on evening invites and if so how far in advance do you get them to reply? I wasnt going to put any RSVP on them as I cant imagine we wud get many responses for H2B friends ie. there realy lads!! and we are giving out a few group invites (work, and H2B football and hurling team) so not sure how this would work. Its just that I am worried about the evening food! ! Do we need to order extra if there are more people comming to the afters and how much extra should we go for if I dont know how many extra people are comming???? Wedding calculations are soooo difficult!!