10th May 2007 12:42
Shilane, we found out and I dont regret it for a moment. We got the negative reactions from people; one of my relatives even said "dont find out our you'll bond too well and what if the baby dies?" Like seriously. Ive barely spoken to her since!
The granny's didnt want to know so we kept it to ourselves, but I can assure you it takes none of the specialness away from the arrival as you have the surprise of weight and looks.
Next time we've vowed not to find out just to see if it makes it any more different but I never regretted finding out