I am so
lets go fly a kite
[quote="fkntcwedding":1bdubhsu]I am so
I'm a bit confused here. Are you getting married abroad or something? Would she not be at the wedding anyway? Why would you not be buying the bridesmaid dress for her?
Being bm should work out cheaper for her, not more expensive. Sounds like a very strange situation.
I am completely confussed myself, No we aren't getting married abroad and yes we will buy her the dress. She is 333 and I don't think she knows what a tradtional wedding is about.... But she won't even talk to me to find out what she would be expected to do......
If she's ignoring your messages now then you're better off finding another bridesmaid, what will it be like nearer the wedding if you can't contact her.
Believe me ask someone else
So she's a bitch, you're better of out of it and not having her there mooching around on the day.
See this as what it is, a close call.
I agree with LGFAK. It seems she doesn't want to be your bridesmaid. Sorry to be so blunt about it. Get someone else, you'll both be happier.
ye i would have to agree as well, she doesnt want to be bridesmaid. Some people just dont like doing it and in all honesty theres no point in forsing her in to it. Get one of your friends to do it.
One thing i will say is that she could have just answered you phone calls and told you out straight, very childish behaviour....
Put it out of your mind. BMs are meant to help and support you. If she's being like that she'd be a liability not an asset.
Are you in America where she'd have to pay for her own dress, hair, makeup etc?
[quote="fkntcwedding":ml6jnfct]I am completely confussed myself, No we aren't getting married abroad and yes we will buy her the dress. [b:ml6jnfct]She is 333[/b:ml6jnfct] and I don't think she knows what a tradtional wedding is about.... But she won't even talk to me to find out what she would be expected to do......[/quote:ml6jnfct]
Maybe she feels shes a bit too old to do it.
Ah sorry, I couldn't resist. Thing is, if you guys are buying her dress then I can't see why she can't afford it - what a weird excuse to make! Is there anything underlying there between the two of you? Have you ever fallen out?
Seems to me that not being able to afford it is not her real reason.