Stag weekends - why can't they come home.....

hubbie went on Stag on Friday lunchtime - so in pub from 2pm Friday and travelled to their destination, Drank Friday night, all day Saturday & Sat night.... Now 8.30 on a Sunday and they have eventually arrived "home" to the local....and are continuing to drink..... Was speaking to him earlier and he informed me that he will probably go drinking with a few of the lads again tomorrow..... Sorry now but I just cannot understand that - do they think there is a specific quota they must consume before finishing up????? (Not to mention the amount of money it's costing....) I'm so mad cos have been at home alone all weekend - with the exception of meeting friends for dinner last night.. Is this the norm or is it only my husband treats me in this way..... Also - if you OH has been away like that - do you let them sleep in your bed or do they go off to the spare room..... cos if I had a choice tonight that is where he would be staying.... I'm so mad here even thinking about them out drinking all weekend and not coming home & then planning to head out again tomorrow - I just don't understand it...... Ok - rant over.........

LOL oh you poor thing!!! I think it'd be the spare room for the beer monster who's in the shape of your h2b. Though you're annoyed, I wouldn't say too much myself cos he's only going to have 1 stag. I could be lynched for that but that's what i reckon. Hope you get the girls round & crack open the wine...what's good enough for the goose...

Thanks for the reply - but we've been married almost 3 years - so it's not his own stag - it's a friend of his - not best friend or anything....... Not gonna say anything to him about it - cos he doesnt go out that much - works really long hours - but it annoys me that when he does go out - he forgets to come home.....

Applette - Is it his own stag?

[quote="applette10":135elcgg]Thanks for the reply - but we've been married almost 3 years - so it's not his own stag - it's a friend of his - not best friend or anything....... Not gonna say anything to him about it - cos he doesnt go out that much - works really long hours - but it annoys me that when he does go out - he forgets to come home.....[/quote:135elcgg] Think we crossed posts - No I wouldn't be impressed. Particularly with tomorrow also. That is totally excessive.

i would KILL my h2b if he even suggested that and he knows it too... max for me would be one day and night. put down the foot ladies

It wouldn't bother me tbh. I'd just glad he's having a good time. And he won't be able to say anything the next time you disappear for the weekend. I don't see any harm in it anyway. Can't believe so many of ye would have a problem with it!

ok - so i dont mind that they are still out drinking - that's ok cos it is a stag weekend after all and i knew that was going to happen... however tomorrow's plan of going out again is not going down well with me... i just think enough is enough - fri to sunday is more than enough imo.....

[quote="applette10":2q3lawan]Thanks for the reply - but we've been married almost 3 years - so it's not his own stag - it's a friend of his - not best friend or anything....... Not gonna say anything to him about it - cos he doesnt go out that much - works really long hours - but it annoys me that when he does go out - he forgets to come home.....[/quote:2q3lawan] Oh Jez that's a totally different kettle of fish!!! Sorry wires crossed...I thought i was HIS stag! Let him at it but out tmrw night is taking it to the max.A stag weekend is the weekend only

Have to say it wouldn't bother me. If I was away at a hen weekend I'd be fairly pissed off with DH if he was annoyed at me for being out. Could u not have arranged some stuff/activities for yourself for the weekend?