myself and partner of 10 years have decided to call it a day on our relationship. we've been working hard to keep it together for the past few months, but nothing is working
so we decided, mutually, to end things for a while, see how we feel.
this happened last week but ppl are only starting to find out now and now everyone keeps asking how i am and have we decided anything else and what are we doing about our apartment and what are gonna do abotu this and what are we gonna be doign about that
and please JUST STOP ASKING ME.
IM FINE, HE'S FINE. WE'RE DOING THIS FOR US! STOP ASKING ME PLEASE!!!!
just kidding did that little rant help.. dont be minding those concerned people..
How are you today
i know theyre only makin sure we're both ok. but still like.
i was fine yesterday, im fine today. why they have to keep asking
i want someone to talk to me about them for the day
leave me out of it
oh and yes
that rant helped
yep know the feeling its like they are checking up on you every 5 minutes!!! its only people showing their caring side but can be annoying!!
what you need is a good gossip about someone else entirely
see this is the kind of thing that worries me when mates are going through something, i worry that if I ask how they are I am annoying them and if I don't I am ignoring them
gerbil thats exactly it
i wanna talk about other stuff ya know.
friends engagement party on saturday and the last thing i want is the attention taken off her and put on us cos of this.
wish everyone would just get over it and let us deal with it.
ill talk to you if i want!!!
I feel bad now cos a few months ago a friend of mine broke up with her fiance and I was in cintact with her every day asking how she was and stuff, but we would also chat about other things..I just wanted her to know I was there for her, I was probably smothering her....
[quote="Kate26":nnbyfp2k]I feel bad now cos a few months ago a friend of mine broke up with her fiance and I was in cintact with her every day asking how she was and stuff, but we would also chat about other things..I just wanted her to know I was there for her, I was probably smothering her....[/quote:nnbyfp2k]
im sorry girls
im sure your friends fully appreciated you being there for them
i do too
i just want a change of conversation. ya know. i have a smile on my face today so kinda want to keep it instead of going back to the sadness that the end of an era is upon me so to speak,
dont feel bad