25th September 2007 17:31I am just so pissed off and need reassurance that I'm not a crazy woman. I wasn't working this weekend so I spent the whole weekend catching up on housework, cooking dinners for H2B for the week (I freeze them) and even painted the flipping utility. Now, H2B WAS working over the weekend so obviously he couldn't help me. However, he was off work yesterday and I asked him to put my dinner on around 7 as i was going to the gym on my way home from work. When I got home at half 7 it was blatantly obvious that he had just stuck on the dinner about 5 minutes before hand as the spuds were like rocks. That was the first thing that pissed me off. The second thing was that when I was off work I spent my time cleaning and when he was off work he spent the day heating the fecking sofa and watching television. Then when we were sitting down I asked him if he could get a few days off in November as I had a plan for his birthday (going to take him to Prague for a 2/3 days - its a secret tho, don't tell him ) and he starts on about how we're under enough pressure with money and that it would be a waste. I haven't had a holiday in 2 years; I work very hard and I'm trying to do something nice for this a**hole and I get told that its a waste! WTF? Anyway, I woke up this morning and felt bad about the huge argument that had kind of come from nowhere and was all prepared to talk about it/apologise at lunchtime. BUT...... he asks me at lunchtime if I mind him going to England with his buddy in 2 weeks time. I asked him what planet he was born on; that I had suggested a holiday and was shot down and then the following day he informs me he's off with his friend for a weekend? I was absolutely fuming and if he had of been within reach I would have strangled him. I swear to Jesus that man can push my buttons like noone else alive. Of course now we're going to have ANOTHER argument about this tonight, and the worst part is that I know he has absolutely no idea why I'm so angry. And when I started roaring at him he starts with the "No matter what I do you have a problem with it" line and I just lost it completely and said no, what I have a problem with is that when I plan something its for OUR benefit, whereas when he plans something its for HIS benefit WTF is wrong with men?