Hi girls, so I've been all relaxed thinking my wedding planner will take care of everything. But now I only have 20 days left and my planner is kind of lazy answering my emails and messages (my wedding is abroad). I really don't know if she's just taking care of everything her own without asking me (which is also not right) or if she's actually doing nothing. I don't want to ask her straight away if she's doing anything as if she is it will sound mad, but I also cannot just sit not knowing. I asked her to talk in skype tomorrow and she saw the message and did not answer. C'mon, you would think these days it should not take ages to answer, right? I don't know if I am over reacting or if there's an actual problem.