24th November 2015 03:46
In the nicest possibly way, do not rely on presents to pay for your wedding! A lot of things need to be paid for up front or envelops at the ready the morning of so it's not feasible. For the likes of the hotel which you balance the morning after, do you really want to spend the morning ripping through cards (probably not even reading them) in the hope that you'll have enough for the bill?
If 300 guests is too expensive, split your list into meal and evening invites. Weddings are so diverse nowadays that people won't get offended.
Plus, will you genuinely have the time to speak to all of your guests on the day if you invite 300? We had 175ish and we still missed out speaking with some of our guests. We didn't give into inviting loads of friends of our parents or all the neighbours or anything like that, just people we honestly wanted there with us.
Whatever you decide, it'll be the right decision for you and your husband to be.