vidia
Posts: 2960
31st May 2010 23:54
We were just talking about this: When talking to a supplier, booking a flight, chatting to a doctor etc, do ye feel wierd saying "ill just check with my FIANCE", I hate it!!!.. Dont like saying "my partner" either, feel like a lessie saying that (nothing worng wit same sex, just we arent)
my "boyfriend" sounds too casual too, so I tend to say "himself" or "the other queer" or something very impersonal!
Cant wait to say my hubby

What do ye all say??
StupidSexyFlanders
Posts: 8402
31st May 2010 23:58
My fiance! Took me a while to get used to it though. I HATE "himself" - it really bugs me for some reason.
FlexyDee
Posts: 4904
1st June 2010 00:35
At the start, it was weird saying "MY FIANCE"! but now its grand!
gottabfp
Posts: 5641
1st June 2010 07:35
it still feels so weird calling him my husband! even when he is telling me a story and he says " i told him id have to ask the wife"... i cringe! im too young to be a wife
ReginaFalange
Posts: 10290
1st June 2010 09:00
[quote="wannabfp":a77hc2tw]it still feels so weird calling him my husband! even when he is telling me a story and he says " i told him id have to ask the wife"... i cringe! im too young to be a wife

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I caught mine saying this one day too on the phone to someone...I'll just have to check with [u:a77hc2tw]the [/u:a77hc2tw]wife.... BARF!
We were watching Corrie one night and Becky was ringing steve's phone and it came up as "the wife" DH was in stiches saying that he was gonna do the same for me on his phone.....fecker
GreenerPastures
Posts: 7284
1st June 2010 09:03
I called him my partner before we were engaged. Felt abit of a wally but we were together so long I thought boyfriend sounded silly. I then said fiance and now husband. Whatever floats your boat.
whoop
Posts: 1310
1st June 2010 09:04
I call him partner. I feel like boyfriend is childish at my age, fiance a bit like ooh i'm getting married, so I just say partner!
cremebrulee
Posts: 8546
1st June 2010 09:06
I still find it weird calling DH husband!
BETTYBOOP12
Posts: 164
1st June 2010 09:42
I am engaged over 5 months and still never say fiancee ( well have said it once or twice in a messing kinda way) i dont know why but feel weird saying it!! so i usually say boyfriend.
dont know what he calls me tho although dont think he would say fiancee either maybe herself or something like that
Jawl
Posts: 8881
1st June 2010 09:53
I can't stand the word partner! Your partner was the person you sat next to in Junior Infants and held hands with on the way to the "halla"

Or the girl that you teamed up with in Home Ec in secondary school.