When to tell No1 your expecting No2

Hiya, I was just wondering with anyone expecting no2 when you told your little ones they would have a sis/bro. DD has me tormented since last year for a sis/bro so now that im 9 weeks pregnant im really dying to tell her, shes 4! I know its early now though and i wouldnt just yet, but would i bring her along to the early scan at 12 weeks or is it best to go without her and tell her then when you know everything is ok?

I was around the same stage as you when I told my dd but if I were honest, it was way too early to tell her. It was around July when I told her but Im not due until February so that's forever away for her so all I can to her is that the baby will come after Christmas as she's forever asking, is the baby ready to come out? If I could do it again, I would have waited until about now to tell her so it wouldn't seem as long away for her because like your little one, she'd love a baby around the house and is very much into babies and pregnancy, even before I got pregnant Best of luck with your decision Congradulations by the way, I hope everythings going well for you x