Just starting out, and suffering from information overkill already. Obviously, the date, venue, and church are the big starting points, but question for you brides .... were there specific vendors that you knew you wanted, even before you got engaged, whom you may have been made aware of through friends weddings etc. It would be great to get a list of your choices, so that i can have a sneak peak over the weekend, to determine them wants and likes, and to get a realistic budget down