Would you be ok with this????

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Mu Posts: 90
Wondering what you think.... Invited my MIL to hen & she suggested she bring her sister to share a room, I said of course no problem. Then she rang me today & has asked 3 more sisters - 2 of which are coming. So that's her & two sister and maybe another one as well.......am a bit baffled, I said at the time no problem. H2B is angry & embarresed though....what should I do???
clucky Posts: 26471
Hi I have the same problem/query - my mil2b has 6 sisters who live in Belfast and she asked if they could all come down and bring me out for a meal as a second mini-hen. I said no problem actually sounds like great fun as the stories I have heard about them when they get together are hilarious but h2b went mad and said it would look bad to others that I was having a second mini-hen with just his relatives. Not sure what to do now - maybe will have one big hen and organise it for a weekend they are all down.
Mrs Summer Posts: 5040
Well if they are going to bother you id let her know how you feel after all its your hens! If not let them go they will probably have just a good time as the rest of yous, I know my MIL did at mine :lol: :lol:
Mae Posts: 229
If it doesn't really bother you, let them all come. At least they will have their own little circle and you won't be fretting, also if you're heading to a club, your mil and her sisters might just head off to the hotel themselves and leave the young ones to it! Personally, it wouldn't bother me at all!
Mama Dora Posts: 14987
I dont see the problem,the more the marrier. Tell your h2b not to be interferring in your hens would you with his stags :roll:
Mrs Neadi* Posts: 1128
if you don't mind them being there then i don't see the problem. tell your h2be to butt out this is your hen night and your not going to be interfering in his :lol: my future mil has 6 sisters god help me! but only 2 or 3 that i like are getting invited :lol:
scotswedding Posts: 2829
I reckon if they're up for the craic leave them at it... Mums and older ones at the hen might feel a little left out if you're there with all your mates so she's probaby thinking feck it, may as well make a night of it and bring the girls with me!! Will probably be a lot more fun for her and you won't have to be looking after her...???
brideaug06 Posts: 241
if you don't mind then don't let it be a problem, at least she'll have people she knows there and you won't feel like you have to look after her.
Sparklymum Posts: 1563
Maybe he's just afraid you'll insist on him taking your Dad and Uncles with him on his Stag! If you don't mind I don't see why what he thinks matters!
Allimac Posts: 45
I think she is using it as an excuse for a night away with her sisters which is nice too - she is probably feeling a bit funny about a hen with a lot of young people and this might make her feel better. She will appreciate you for not minding and you won't have to worry about her either!!