16th May 2009 16:50I'm trying to decide whether to invite one of my cousins partners. I'm fairly close to this family of cousins and I am inviting the older cousins partners as I know them and get on well with them and they are living together. The cousin in question is with this partner around 2.5 years and has a baby with them. The problem is the partner leaves a lot to be desired in that they are, to put it bluntly, very rough. H2b does not want the partner invited tbh I would be embarrased if anyone thought I was related to this person. I'm starting to feel bad as the cousin is not coming to the full wedding now, just the afters with the partner. Should I just ask the partner? I really don't want this person there but I feel bad as its the cousins partner. Help!