Just wondering did this every happen to anyone else my DH could not get a hard on
Oh dear maybe hes feeling the pressure a bit! If I was you I would make everything as relaxed as possible and not mention the gynae (or anything gynaecological for that matter) and seduce him when he gets home. 10.30 isn't that late! Best of luck!
Good advice, think I will try and do that. Don't really feel in the mood for seducing but I better try
Oh Gurtie, it must be so hard on both of you. It sounds like your DH is just under too much pressure and is probably just feeling like a baby making machine and feels like he needs to do it on demand. When I was using OPKs I never told my DH - I just jumped him when I got the green light. I know your situation is different, and you must be under huge strain as well. I know it's hard for you too but you need to look at it from his point of view. Sorry I can't be of more help. Hope it works out for you.
(easier said than done I know).
Take care and hope it all works out for you
Oh Gurtie - thats awful pet - I feel for you (both) - DH went through the same thing with the first Mrs TA and he told me that it was a terrible time for them where he felt constantly under pressure to "perform" if you like. Do take the advice and relax and try and seduce him later because the more relaxed you both are the better.
Thanks Tiglets, You are right we are both under huge pressure. Yesterday I had to go home from work sick and the injections don't make you feel very good either. I feel really bloated and un-attractive. So I suppose me feeling like this isn't much of a turn on I have been trying hard to look at it from his point of view all day. So fingers crossed for tonight.
Ah thanks Mrs TA, I will definetly take advice and try to seduce him
good luck pet
It does sound like stress thats causing him not to perform, poor you though you are under stress too and Im sure you'd loved to be seduced.
Anyways on the seducing front why dont you try a (if you have the energy) full body massage with lots of body oil that will both relax him and, um, energize
I am experiencing the same problem with my DH. It has been almost 3 weeks now since we have DTD. He cannot sustain it at all.
At the end of the day, it is not going to work if you force the issue, I know that.
I cannot offer any different advice than what the others guys have suggested. Good luck with it though, I know how sensitive men can be about this.
Thanks Swissgirl, That is a good idea, I will have the oils ready when he gets home from work. I am useless at doing any of this kind of thing. But I will just have to start