We had the big Wedding planned for November this year. My mum took ill suddenly and passed away. It hit us all so hard as we were extremly close so we decided, with the help and advice from all of you, to cancel our wedding as it would not have been the same. After a few months we decided to go ahead and plan a wedding abroad as it would be totally different and although it would be hard without her it would be nice as we spent a lot of time in this location. The plan is for next April.
But in the meantime my partner and I have decided that we just want to be married, so we have booked into a registry office the day before xmas eve to make it official. But we have told NO ONE!
My question is, should we tell our family about this wedding or not? I dont want ppl to think we cheated them out of being at the offical wedding but we dont really want a lot of ppl there as my view is, if the most important person cant be there i dont want anyone there. I dont know if that is right but its how I see it.
All options will be GREATLY appreciated! Thanks girls xXx