To find out or not??

Hey ladies, Have my 20 week scan (big scan) next week and really want to find out what we are having! Just wondering did many of ye find out? What do ye think I should do?! To wait for a surprise or not.... Thanks

I wouldn't want to find out but I am only 9 weeks at the mo. I could change my mind come 22 weeks.

Hi hon I voted no also am my opinion is that while in labour I had to have something to push for, ie whether or not its a boy or girl. When I was pregnant with ds I really enjoyed everyone guessing what I was having and the reasons why. The best of luck with ur decision and let us know what u decide to do.

I'm on baby number 4 and have found out on all. We don't tell anyone though. I like to know asap. As for saving the surprise - there's nothing as surprising or as exciting as meeting your new baby - no added mystery could improve on it I think!

I voted no too- the guessing & anticipation was a huge part of being pregnant for me anyway. I was 100% sure I was having a boy & the surprise we got when a little girl appeared was unreal! Everyone's different though, so you'll have to decide with your own reasons. Either was the feeling of meeting your little baby will be totally amazing