Hi everybody I am a regular user on this but Ive gone anon on this one. I want to change a couple of things in our lives for the new year....one thing is dtd. Since we've had ds who is nearly 2, we just don't do it as often. Mostly because I am so tired, I also work during the week I do 5 nights so come sat and sun all I want is pjs, glass of vino and bed!!! I feel bad for dh as he is so understanding about it all, but yet I know he'd like dtd a bit more >:o) so my new year changing is that :-8 Now what could I do, or how could I change the mood a bit or make an effort.....I feel sad for even having to ask this :-8