pout1
Posts: 135
10th November 2009 16:21
hi girls
am just wondering how long after having your little ones that you had sex again
i am kinda afraid 4 weeks after that all has not healed down there but not sure if i am been over anxious
love to hear your experiences
Piggle
Posts: 1770
10th November 2009 18:03
My friends said they waited at least six weeks ... but even at that they said they didnt feel they were ready!
I dread the first time!!!
wifetobe
Posts: 1438
10th November 2009 21:00
We dtd after 3w and 2 days. It was a bit tender but I was dying to

it was really nice without the bump tbh!
I did feel ok down there though, they do recommend 6 weeks though .
hth
March Baby
Posts: 89
11th November 2009 15:49
They say after the six week checkup. I have told my hubby this (we are excepting no. 1) and he was like, OMG! Some friends have told me it really depends, one of my friends was up for it the day she got home! Depends on how you are feeling and if you needed stitches I suppose. God I started to show early as I am very small and I can't wait to dtd again without my bump getting in the way!
Give you a laugh, last weekend while spending some time with hubby my baby started to kick, it was a bit of a turn off I have to say. Suppose when baby arrives we will get less time so maybe he was giving me a warning!
Diamondz
Posts: 2208
11th November 2009 19:28
at my last antenatal class midwife said they prefer if you have DTD before your six week checkup so you can let them know if anything is wrong etc... sounds quick to me but i guess it depends how the birth goes and how you feel down below afterwards...
smurf77
Posts: 2216
11th November 2009 23:21
Yep I heard before the six weeks too and did this and it was a sore alright but think its so they can make sure you are healing correctly
simon
Posts: 105
19th November 2009 09:51
for me it has been really sore. I've only done it twice in 3 months and it just feels so tight. Its not happening at all. Is it ever gonna get better
Mrs C at last
Posts: 1672
19th November 2009 10:16
For me it was 3 weeks, but I had a section, so I think different rules apply. For my SIL it was 6 months
hagfromhell
Posts: 2146
19th November 2009 10:18
How long should you wait after a section? If its six weeks for a normal birth it must be so much more after c.section???
milis
Posts: 7998
19th November 2009 12:28
[quote="hagfromhell":1rrbvpp9]How long should you wait after a section? If its six weeks for a normal birth it must be so much more after c.section???[/quote:1rrbvpp9]
why would it be more? i'd have thought less!!!